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About Child Abuse:
Signs of child abuse

Physical Abuse

Does the child...?
  • have unexplained burns, bites, bruises, broken bones, or black eyes
  • have fading bruises or other noticeable marks
  • seem frightened of a parent or guardian or cry when it is time to go home from school
  • shrink at the approach of adults
  • report injury by a parent or caregiver
  • seem unusually withdrawn and compliant or overly aggressive
Do the parents or other adult caregivers...?
  • offer conflicting, unconvincing, or no explanations for the child's injury
  • describe the child as "evil," or in some other very negative way
  • use harsh physical discipline with the hild
  • have a history of abuse as a child

Neglect

Does the child...?
  • frequently miss school
  • beg or steal food or money from friends or classmates
  • lack needed medical or dental care, immunizations, or glasses
  • appear consistently dirty or have severe body odor
  • lack sufficient appropriate clothing for the weather
  • abuse alcohol or other drugs
  • state that there is no one at home to provide care
Do the parents or adult caregiver...?
  • appear to be indifferent to the child
  • seem apathetic or depressed
  • behave irrationally or in a bizarre manner
  • abuse alcohol or other drugs

Sexual Abuse

Does the child...?
  • have difficulty walking or sitting
  • suddenly refuse to change for gym or to participate in physical activities
  • demonstrate bizarre, sophisticated, or unusual sexual knowledge or behavior
  • have a venereal disease/has the child become pregnant (particularly if under age 14)
  • run away from home
  • report sexual abuse
Do the parents or other adult caregivers...?
  • appear unduly protective of the child, severely limiting the child's contact with other children, especially the opposite sex
  • seem secretive or isolated
  • describe marital difficulties involving family power struggles or sexual relations

Emotional Maltreatment

Does the child...?
  • show extremes in behavior, such as overly compliant or demanding behavior, extreme passivity or aggression
  • display behaviors which are inappropriately adult (parenting other children, for example) or inappropriately infantile (frequent rocking or head-banging, for example)
  • seem delayed in physical or emotional development
  • speak of or attempt suicide
  • report a lack of attachment to the parent
Do the parents or adult caregivers...?
  • constantly blame, belittle, or berate the child
  • appear unconcerned about the child or refuse to consider offers of help for the child's school problems
  • overtly reject the child

This brief list of symptoms and indicators is neither conclusive nor comprehensive. While it is difficult to be certain that these signs result from abuse, they do provide reason for concern and suggest that further evaluation or assessment may be needed.

It is important to realize that an abused child may be quiet, cooperative and overachieving. Such children may not receive much attention, as they are not posing difficulties for teachers or other adults.


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